Tuesday, July 15, 2008
summer seoul lovin'
Thursday, July 10, 2008
rushdie the enchantress
Monday, June 16, 2008
oops...

The Rag and Bone Mac A-Line jacket. The owner walked over and told me how nice it looked on me.(But of course - working his charm) He told me all jackets were 30% off. I twitched. At $475, that still ain't cheap. I lingered...I cried inside...I tried on again and again then sighed and put it back on the rack...
Having been brought up by a frugal Korean mother who never had any qualms about haggling, the inner-Korean haggler came out in me. I schemed while taking a walk on the mens side pretending to look for something for my pretend boyfriend, I walked back over to the jacket and gently touched it as if I were petting an endearing friend. I could sense the owner was watching me so I hammed it up a little me. I smiled, walked to the register with jacket in hand and he asked me what I thought.
"I can't lie, I really love it" I said in a cautiously enthusiastic tone. "But I'd like it more if it were a little cheaper, say...__% off?"
He laughed out loud. "It does look good on you...I'll do it. You can't tell anyone!"
I thanked him heartily and we made small talk about the worsening economy and what he's been doing to stay afloat. He told me to come back often - I'd only come when the sales were happening =)
I am officially ready for Fall.
Sunday, May 11, 2008
everything looks better in sepia
By 8:50 the other two in our party had arrived and we didn't even have to tell the hostess that the whole party arrived - she met us at the bar and was ready to seat us. What a good eye!
Come 12:15, the restaurant was empty and we were just finishing up! We hadn't even noticed that we were the last ones there. The server never rushed us and the other wait staff just finished their business quietly as they allowed us to top off our night out at our own glacial pace. What a night! Three courses, a cheese platter, two bottles of wine, a cocktail each, tax and tip set us over $80 a person. Well worth EVERY penny.
Sunday, April 27, 2008
party on the cheap
Thursday, April 17, 2008
a reading and talk by pico iyer
When he walked onto stage I was surprised to see how tall and lanky he was. He's got a special sort of intellectual charisma and charm. Iyer started out with a few anecdotes about Chicago and his love for pizza. He's quite funny. Despite being a world traveler, he has a penchant for pizza. He's married to a Japanese woman and together they live in Japan, but he says you can find him at a convenient store eating a slice of pizza instead of at a fancy restaurant dining on sashimi platters. He's a confident and animated speaker and reader which made every minute in the auditorium a pure pleasure.
His book stems from 30 years of personal observation and interaction with the Dalai Lama. Iyer's father is a philosopher and close friend of the D.L. - how many people can say that? Iyer's father took him to meet the D.L.for the first time when he was 17. Since then, he's made many trips to visit the D.L. in Tibet or other locations when he was exiled. The interesting thing about Iyer is that he hasn't written off pop culture and actually uses today's pop cultural references to make various points about the D.L. in his book. The one thing I took away from this lecture was the idea that this is the age of the exile - there are 33 million exiled or displaced people living around the world today. This idea of a homeland or country is becoming more of a dreamland than a reality.
At the end of his reading and lecture he opened up the floor for questions. Everyone had specific questions about what the Dalai Lama thought about the war, China vs. Tibet, globalization, etc...When he finally called on me to ask my question, I apologized to everyone for not having a more specific question on the subject at hand. Instead I asked him for the one key advice you'd give to any aspiring writer. His answer:
"Using your own background, training and interests find something that you have that can unlock a new view of a subject that is unique to every other viewpoint. Write something engaging or in the moment, not passive. Write about what you know."
Sunday, April 13, 2008
chicago style birthday bash
The Blue Frog was packed like sardines as usual, but it was a fabulous time! There were several other parties there that night which made it more festive. The highlight of the evening, when my friend and her boyfriend sang "Me So Horny." Oh yes.